What to do after you get the phone number

Those who know me well will understand that I am someone who doesn’t like the ‘what if’ theory in going after girls. I do not like to go into hypothesis about people I am interested in. Coz I believe in seizing opportunities in a natural and relaxed setting. However I still believe there are certain rules to follow in establishing something positive with a person. One of them is- what do you do after you get the phone number of the person you like?

Ya. I have been a great follower of Vanae Show. For the Vanae Show, I am fascinated by her insights, maybe a bit of her looks & figure (erm).

It applies- I mean what she said. Texting is a very important prelude to calling. No multiple calling. Coz it may not be pleasant. What not to do during texting is to be apologetic about whether you can call her-something that goes along like “Sorry, can I call u at 9pm” or “I hope I am not disturbing you, can I call u later”. These are BS. It doesn’t pay to be apologetic for nothing. Just ask whether it would be a great time to call at certain time can already. In some cases, there is simply no requirement to text before calling- when you are absolutely sure the girl is very “into” you.

Coz my friend just got the number from the girl he is interested in. He is doing very well though. Full marks to him. The chance is ever so clear now. Under my guidance, its impossible not to close the deal when both parties are interested and are spontaneous about it

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The match-making outing (slideshow)

I have compiled 20 odd photos of the outing I had yesterday and have presented it as a slide.

So what did we do yesterday. In short, it was bowling,short photo-taking at esplanade,lunch,karaoke,dinner & then short photo-taking at Orchard Road. It was very tiring for all of us but it guess it was worth it. I have got many good pictures taken & also Sam get to know a beautiful friend. Let’s hope there can be more things to come between them :P

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A Match-making outing (Photos)

Yesterday was the match-making outing for Sam & Bing Bing. It didn’t turn out to be very well arranged. However I managed to take some very good photos with my new camera- a Canon Powershot though.

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In all, it was more of a photo taking session rather than a match-making one. I may blog about it later

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A Matchmaking Dilemma

I was asked by Li Shan to introduce a male friend to Bing Bing, a female friend. One person that came to my mind was Sam, an ex-colleague and friend from the Navy. As such, I have planned to let the 2 meet up this Saturday.

But I have a dilemma & that is how should I plan the sequence of event? Originally I had planned to organize dinner first, bowling & then a short coffee session. However I am not too sure whether I will be able to book a lane for bowling after dinner this Saturday. Coz I want to have the event at Marina Square & because it is a Saturday night, it can be quite hard to book a lane. But if I have bowling first & then dinner, I am not too sure whether that will work out fine coz I have planned the dinner at the Marina Square foodcourt. You know la, foodcourt how to talk? Maybe bowling then coffee session- but will we all be starving after the bowling session?

The best combination would be to have dinner at the foodcourt, then bowling which acts as an ice-breaker, & then coffee session which would allow the two people to interact & exchange contacts etc. But question is, can I find a lane for bowling at that time?

Should I rearrange my sequence of event?

Such a dilemma.

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More photos

For those people who are not able to see me on Facebook, I have uploaded more photos for preview.

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An S.H.E video

Attached is a video I made a few years back of S.H.E. I am rather proud of this video coz I think that it is well made. It took me half a day to come out with this video I can still remember. Yes, I was an S.H.E fanatic back in Uni days.

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Day of Halloween (Part 2)

More photos…..taken from a Cybershot

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So guys, what do you think? Is a Sony Cybershot better?

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Day of Halloween (Part 1)

Some photos taken yesterday with my Casio camera.

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Really. I used to think that my camera is good, but wait till you see Part 2 which are shots taken by Jojo’s Sony Cybershot Camera. I am thinking of getting a cybershot myself.

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Break up song

Everyone should have a theme song when they breakup or break off from their loved ones.

I have endured a hard September. I remembered I cried until I had no more tears to shed. It was as if I have lost some parts of me. Listening to this song was sort of a comfort. I don’t know why. Maybe this song was pitying me.

I am glad I have walked out from it (the sadness).

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秘密

歌词透露了我的心声

“就把你深深藏在我心中一輩子再也不對別人說
說我曾經愛過你我曾經為你笑過哭過

就把你深深藏在我心中一輩子再也不對別人說
就算他日再相遇也笑著與你擦肩而過”

再见了.

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