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November 9, 2009

What to do after you get the phone number

Filed under: Love — jerronlee @ 2:49 pm

Those who know me well will understand that I am someone who doesn’t like the ‘what if’ theory in going after girls. I do not like to go into hypothesis about people I am interested in. Coz I believe in seizing opportunities in a natural and relaxed setting. However I still believe there are certain rules to follow in establishing something positive with a person. One of them is- what do you do after you get the phone number of the person you like?

Ya. I have been a great follower of Vanae Show. For the Vanae Show, I am fascinated by her insights, maybe a bit of her looks & figure (erm).

It applies- I mean what she said. Texting is a very important prelude to calling. No multiple calling. Coz it may not be pleasant. What not to do during texting is to be apologetic about whether you can call her-something that goes along like “Sorry, can I call u at 9pm” or “I hope I am not disturbing you, can I call u later”. These are BS. It doesn’t pay to be apologetic for nothing. Just ask whether it would be a great time to call at certain time can already. In some cases, there is simply no requirement to text before calling- when you are absolutely sure the girl is very “into” you.

Coz my friend just got the number from the girl he is interested in. He is doing very well though. Full marks to him. The chance is ever so clear now. Under my guidance, its impossible not to close the deal when both parties are interested and are spontaneous about it

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